It’s been a great week!
My daughter Shellie delivered her third child on Tuesday morning, so I
have been involved with babysitting her other two for the last few days. It’s reminded me of how sweet families are.
Holding a brand new baby, so delicate and pure, is satisfying and
wonderful.
I wanted to share a story about a woman who was given a new
life just a week or so ago. It’s an
amazing story. We have been praying for
her for a long time.
Those prayers became a miracle.
Alisa is my niece—she lives in Utah with
most of our other relatives. When she
was 28 in August of 2007, she found a mole on her upper thigh that looked
ugly. She noticed that it bled when
bumped, so she went to a dermatologist to have it removed. Although the dermatologist reassured her that
it didn’t look cancerous, the pathology report confirmed it as melanoma.
Surgery to remove the area around the cancer
followed, it looked like a shark bite on her leg, then more testing. The news was grim—her lymph nodes were full
of cancer. Alisa did what any mother of
three little boys (ages 2, 4, and 6) would do with such news: she took her family
to Disneyland! Suddenly she wasn’t sure
if she would ever have a chance to do this again.
Although Alisa’s parents had just left for Peru as a church
assignment, her extended family and friends took care of her kids and family as
she began her treatment. Alisa had been
keeping a blog—it became the way she kept her parents informed about her
progress. After more surgery, and
Interferon, doctors still only gave Alisa a 50% chance of surviving this
cancer. She endured the treatments over
the next year and experienced a miracle:
she was cured. She had beat the
cancer and just had to have scans periodically to make sure it didn’t recur.
I wish the story ended here, but Alisa’s fight wasn’t
over. She enjoyed a few years of freedom
from cancer and then noticed a small wart growing on her leg in February
2011. The dermatologist again reassured
her when he took it off, that it didn’t look like cancer to him. But tests confirmed that it was the original
cancer recurring, rated as Stage 3c melanoma.
Alisa and her family were crushed. Although she had responded well to
interferon, the cancer’s return meant it hadn’t worked completely. She had surgery to enlarge the ‘shark bite’
area and remove the cancer. Then she
just watched and waited to see if it grew back.
If it did, her chances were down to 10% of surviving this new onslaught
of cancer. And her options for treatment
were very limited.
Months went by with scans every three months. Each scan was clear until Alisa’s 33rd
birthday in January 2012. The scans
showed that more tumors formed all over her body. Now she was considered Stage 4. Doctors recommended that she try a new
experimental treatment called IL2 that boosts the body’s immune system to
recognize and kill the cancer. They
radiated the shark bite area and settled in for a long fight, as IL2 has only a
4-6% cure rate.
As Alisa explained this to her young boys, she stressed that
it would be hard. She would feel sick a
lot in the next several weeks. And she’d
be at the hospital often to receive the treatments, so they’d be with
babysitters and other helpers. But she
ended with, “This is going to be hard, but guess what? We can do hard things!”
Alisa endured the miserable treatments like a trouper. The infusions made her start to shake
uncontrollably as her heart raced. Then
diahrrea set in with skin itching and thrush in the mouth. They tried to manage the side effects but
allow the drugs to force the body to fight the cancer. They gave her ten doses over several days,
monitored her and sent her home. This left
her bloated, nauseated, feverish, sunburned, and weak for several days. But the tumors would shrink markedly, then
begin to grow again once she recovered enough to take another round of
treatments.
After undergoing treatments as often as she could take them,
Alisa had a setback and had to stop the treatments. By June, her tumors had grown
considerably. Doctors counted over 100 tumors all over her
body and of those, 25 were in her brain.
Alisa couldn’t risk problems associated with driving, so suddenly she
was grounded. For spontaneous Alisa,
this was hard to handle.
Alisa’s chances for survival dropped dramatically enough
that she qualified for a clinical trial.
She started treatment using IPI or Yervoy with Temador. This combination caused an immune response
that caused Colitis, or intestinal issues.
She again had to stop treatments long enough to heal. By the time she started treatment again, the
family was looking at long term nanny care for her three boys. Her chances were so slim that it became
important to plan for when she wasn’t there anymore. But Alisa held out hope.
“The thing is, I am also prepared
for a miracle. No work required there (or do I need more faith?) A heart is always prepared for a
miracle. It would be so easy to fit into this story. It goes along
with everything I said, and believe. It matches everything I wear.
It would be the most becoming addition to this pretty existence. So, when
the kids still pray for all Mom's cancer to go away, I let them. Let
them lean to that side.
“It does seem at the
end of a day (especially a summer day) I find myself loving my life.
Despite the bad parts. It is not to scale. The good, every time I
think about it, outweighs the bad. The surplus is astounding. I
love the very body that is attacking me. The things that are breaking my
heart I cherish above anything. The kids that have to hear and consider
some really hard stuff...they are thriving.
“The world is a beautiful place. And here I am. On two feet.”
“The world is a beautiful place. And here I am. On two feet.”
After continuing the IPI and Temador for several months,
Alisa had a great scan last month in September 2012. All of the tumors were gone! She got her miracle! She said,
“How can I describe it? Like
I have been born again, really. Resurrected from the dead.
“For example, last night I went for a run. I had a loose, long-sleeved, thin shirt. On the way home, the wind was blowing just so to make ripples in the sleeves up the entire arm. It tickled and made me laugh, wild with delight. I have worn that shirt quite often. But it has never thrilled me before.
“That is the latest. This kind of thing happening to me throughout the day. I am just so excited about being here. It is an incredible way to live! Like a newborn. Wide-eyed and grinning.”
“For example, last night I went for a run. I had a loose, long-sleeved, thin shirt. On the way home, the wind was blowing just so to make ripples in the sleeves up the entire arm. It tickled and made me laugh, wild with delight. I have worn that shirt quite often. But it has never thrilled me before.
“That is the latest. This kind of thing happening to me throughout the day. I am just so excited about being here. It is an incredible way to live! Like a newborn. Wide-eyed and grinning.”
We all realize that this isn’t over for Alisa. She will continue treatment and hope that the
miracle holds. She trusts in Heavenly
Father that He knows her and her family, and that the right things will happen
for them. But for now, she’s grateful
for the miracle that has extended her life, perhaps even saved it. She’s savoring every minute of this miracle,
just as we all should. We can keep trusting that Heavenly Father knows us and hears all of our prayers.
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